Be fruitful and multiply !
The children are gifts from God. How beautiful is a large family! How blessed they are for obeying God!
As you are preparing yourself to get married, pray a lot, ask God for courage to follow His laws. Do not use any form of birth control pills. Do not mutilate yourselves in tubal ligation and vasectomy. Be open to creation of new life! Let God give you as many children as He wants.
It is a horrible thing when someone is getting married and they(the modernists) ask: "how many children do you want? " May your answer be "as many as God wants." Do not plan to have children as the modern people do. Instead let God plan children for you. And be strong. And don`t look back.
The called Family Natural Planning also is to be avoided, because a family planning is also against God, who says" be fruitful and multiply". The Family Natural Planning also make the men in control of creation of life, they decide to have two or three children, it all about their decision, thought naturally means, but it is still a sin. It is a form of deceiving God who wants to plan children for your family. Let God decide how many children you will have. Let Him the center of your life!
When the couple just can not conceive by their own they should never go for artificial insemination, in vitro babies. It is ok to go for a doctor to ask for help them to conceive naturally, but never go for artificial insemination. That is a serious mortal sin directly against God, who is the creator of earth and heaven, the creator of life. The babies created in labs are not created by God. They are created by doctors. We see this trend going on a lot, even between Catholics. I will not say any name here, but I have seen in our midst some bad examples, and let me sad to see a lot of people being happy for them and support them. This married couple who wanted so much to have children and went for in vitro process, paying thousands of dollars, the doctor gave her doses of fertilization drugs, she conceived 4 babies, and decided to keep only two, the other two they aborted..the in-vitro process is already a mortal sin and they aborted 2 embryos., that is sad, they don't know or never will believe they have sent these 2 unborn babies to eternity! This bothers me for a long time even now. And she even counseled her two single sisters to do in vitro fertilization also. May Jesus have mercy! That is a sad story! And now in evil society where everything is legal..the gay and lesbian couples are going to in vitro fertilization also. I feel sorry for these children. Oh, we need to pray for the conversion of sinners! And never give them approval for their sins.
My child, if you find yourself infertile, you should pray a lot and ask God for a miracle, continue to pray a lot, God can work miracles if it is His will. If your doctor can not help you naturally, you need to accept God`s will. You can adopt children.
The abortion is a horrible mortal sin. It is legal in many parts of the globe. And see, many things that are legal are against God. Abortion is what it is, killing of babies, it is a murder. May Jesus and Mary save many unborn babies from abortion! We need to pray against abortion every day! May God delivery you and all your descendants from doing what is evil before God!
May God bless you!
